im 17 next month, and im soooooooo shy around boys to the point i get so uncomfortable being around my friends boy mates, and its not even the fact that i fancy them, becus i dont. i dont know whats wrong with me or how to speak to them?:/

You're probably over-thinking it. There's no need to be shy; boys are just girls with penises lol. Talk to them the way you would anyone else. People are people :)

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